Excellent note, as always. One thing we should both explore is how Christianity and patriarchy play a role in spankings.

Spare the rod and spoil the child has become dogma in America.

I think this also adds a layer to this type of cruel punishment.

After my mother spanked my daughter she was overcome with shame and regret.

I will explore that at a later time. Something, that your parents both seem to realize later in life.